Creating Healthier Relationships

A Christian matchmaking program for singles who want to leave dating apps behind. You do the inner work first, learn how to date with intention, then get introduced to someone who is ready to do the same.

Healthy people in healthy dating relationships lead to healthier marriages and healthier families

Applying costs nothing and takes about 20 minutes.

FOUNDING MEMBERS apply now for the lowest pricing that will ever offered

Why not just use an app?

Apps reward quick impressions. They rarely ask whether you know what you need, how your upbringing shapes your relationships, or whether you and a match share the same convictions.

This program starts with those questions.

This is for you if you

  • want a relationship built on Christian faith and headed toward marriage

  • are willing to look honestly at your own habits, history, and needs

  • would rather be introduced with care than search on your own

How It Works

Step 1: Fill out the FREE online application

Step 2: Meet with the Matchmaker

Step 3: Enter the Program

Step 4: Match or Mingle

Step 5: Ongoing relationship coaching

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Apply

Tell us about your background, your goals, and your expectations. Questions cover your testimony, relationship history, work and finances, family history, and your dealbreakers. Be candid. Every answer helps us know whether the program is a good fit and how to match you.

Free


Meet the matchmaker

If you're accepted, we schedule a two-hour phone session. We go through your application together and talk about where you are spiritually and relationally, so we can tell whether you're ready for the class or would benefit from coaching first.

$399


Start the program

Choose the format that suits you. Each option is six two-hour sessions

Group Program

$600

Six two-hour sessions on Zoom (no video for participants) with other singles in the program

Private Program

$2400

The same sessions as above but one-on-one in six two-hour sessions


Get matched or mingle

Once you finish your six sessions, you’re ready to date. There are two paths:

The match

$1000

When a strong match is available right away, you get an introduction, a suggested date venue, and conversation questions

The mingle

$150/mo

Meet others who completed the class until a match is found


Ongoing relationship coaching

$150/mo

After the class and once dating begins, you can continue with up to two one-on-one sessions each month to work through questions and concerns as they come up.


How It Works

Four steps, in order. You pay for a step only when you reach it

What you'll learn in the program

The six sessions are the heart of the program. You spend these sessions getting to know yourself and learning how to build a relationship that lasts.

  • Your emotional needs. Which needs you tend to look to others to meet, such as validation, security, or approval.

  • Taking needs to God first. How to handle stress, feeling unloved or disrespected, and how to communicate what you need.

  • Where you learned relationships. How your parents handled work, home, money, and conflict, and how that shapes your expectations.

  • Who you want to become. How others describe you now, how you'd like to be described, and what you bring to a marriage.

  • Roles and expectations. Who does what around the house, with money, with the kids, and in leading spiritual life together.

  • Healthy dating boundaries. A detailed look at the relationship guidelines (RAM), a realistic timeline, and warnings about moving too fast.

  • Dealbreakers. How to tell a real dealbreaker from a preference.

  • Dating safety. Practical steps for meeting someone new.

  • Before the proposal. Questions to ask and how to involve family and friends.

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