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Schedule a Breakthrough Session

During this 45-minute call with Abigail, you’ll be able to ask your questions about your relationship and get the clarity and direction you need.

This is a one-time call with powerful results. The cost of this session is $125 USD. Use coupon code BREAKTHROUGH to get $45 off.

If you are interested in ongoing coaching, coaching packages are available, so ask for more information during your call.

To schedule your session:

  1. Choose a time from my calendar below

  2. Pay for the session (don’t forget to enter the code BREAKTHROUGH for a $45 discount)

  3. Add the session to your calendar from the confirmation email that you’ll receive

By scheduling a session, you agree to abide by the coaching agreement with its terms and conditions.

Have questions before you schedule? Email me.

When you are going through a period of awakening to the possibility that you are in an abusive relationship it's disorienting. Its frightening. The prognosis is grim. Secular world says "leave him girl! He won't change." The church says "God hates divorce girl, you gotta stay and pray!" Enter Abigail- a gifted coach with a trained eye who understands what we are going through - us Christian wives navigating difficult marriages where power dynamics are at play. What if the option isn't stay or go (yet)? What if there is a third option? Become stronger. Create and enforce consequences and boundaries (safely). Believing the full truth of what God says about oppression, Lording over others, harshness, selfishness, malice etc? Y'all, Abigail GETS IT. You may be in biblical marital counseling, you may have met with your pastor, Christian marital/psychological counseling, or all alone for now. What you need is a space for the truth of your reality to land. Not to re-gaslight you into praying more. And--- to be fair- not to gaslight into believing changing isn't possible at all. It may or may not be, but Abigail is here to help you grow in your resolve, your strength and to help you trust what you're seeing and live in THAT reality and make decisions FROM that reality. It's been a blessing finding her and working with her. She has challenged my thinking in ways that have helped me to stop over teaching, over giving, rewarding destructive behaviors, over explaining or over functioning. She helped me to make distinctions between the Biblical platitudes in counseling and the more nuanced meanings that allow for me to stand up for what's loving and true in marriage. Love is sometimes tough. It's not coddling or endless forgiveness with no repentance. She's a great listener a great summarizer of what you're really saying and asking for and she gives exceptionally wise counsel. I'm sorry any of us have to go through this -as much as I love her, I'm sorry her coaching even has to exist. And yet in this fallen world -- there is hope in becoming stronger through all of this whether or not the marriage survives. Thank you Abigail! -Jill Burns (5 stars)

  • In order to bill insurance, a diagnosis would have to be assessed for and given, and as a coach, I do not diagnose, so therefore I do not bill insurance.

  • There have been hundreds of people who have had a Breakthrough Session (see the countries represented below!), and they have received the clarity, guidance, or breakthrough they needed.

    As one woman said: “I’ve been to pastors, mentors, and counselors, and Abigail was the first person who was able to see exactly what I needed.”

  • This is actually a common (and understandable) concern! You don’t know me, and it isn’t common for someone to be available through a website that you can talk to, so I completely understand if you are wary.

    There is a lot of evidence to help you discern that what I do isn’t a scam: You’ve read the articles on my blog, which are written by me, so you know my style, my passion for God and His Word, and you are able to get a sense of my expertise. There are also many testimonials (see above) from people who have received coaching and have found that it made a significant difference in their lives.

    I hope that reassures you! However, if you still aren’t sure but would like to schedule a Breakthrough Session, feel free to email me and ask how to do that without risking your payment, and I’ll make arrangements with you to provide peace of mind.

    As a final bit of reassurance, this is one woman’s statement (and a commonly-given testimony): “I was hesitant to book the session, but I am so glad I did. Even though you didn’t know me, you were so right on, so direct, and spoke like you had known me for a long time - and the Lord really used you.”

  • I wish I could allow people to book a session without paying until the time of the session, but when I’ve done that in the past, people often book sessions that they don’t intend to be available for, and then that appointment slot is taken up and not used while there are other people who are wanting to get scheduled who would attend the session. This is the reason that I ask for payment at the time of booking. If this is a concern for you, and you’d like to schedule a session, feel free to email me, and I’ll work with you on other arrangements.

  • There are a few options to ensure that your spouse isn't alerted to the payment.

    One is to purchase a Visa gift card for yourself and use the card to make the payment. That will avoid having it show up on any credit card bills.

    Another option would be to have a family member or friend make the payment and you can pay them back for it.

    Sometimes a person’s church will also gladly cover the cost of sessions to allow someone to get the godly guidance they need.

    Also, there is an option to pay via PayPal, which means that you could set up your own PayPal account (if you don't already have one), and run the payment through there.

  • I sure do! I stand, utterly grateful, on the firm foundation that the only way to be saved from our imperfection and sin so that we can live forever with God in heaven is to rely on the sacrifice of Jesus on the cross, who took our place to pay the penalty for our sins (Romans 3: 21-26). In rising from the dead, he gained victory over the curse of death (Romans 6:5-10), and ascended to the right hand of God (Acts 2:33-35), from where he promises to return for those who believe him (John 14:3) so that we can spend eternity with him in a New Heaven and New Earth (2 Peter 3:13). While we eagerly await his return, he has given us his Holy Spirit as a counselor to help us and teach us the truth (John 14).

    Since we have the Holy Spirit and the Scriptures, which are the Word of God, we can know God, his character, and his will. 1 Corinthians 2: 11-16 says "no one knows the thoughts of God except the Spirit of God. What we have received is not the spirit of the world, but the Spirit who is from God, so that we may understand what God has freely given us.” And Hebrews 8:11 says, ”No longer will they teach their neighbor, or say to one another, ‘Know the Lord,’ because they will all know me, from the least of them to the greatest.”

    We know him through his Word, and because Scripture interprets Scripture, I allow it to do that. There is no specific denominational affiliation that influences my approach to coaching or biblical interpretation, because I don’t follow Christians, I follow Christ so that “there be no divisions among you, but that you be perfectly united in mind and thought” (1 Corinthians 1:10). To this end I have fellowship with (and doctrinal perspective from) believers from a variety of denominations including (but not limited to) Catholic, Lutheran, Baptist, Pentecostal, Evangelical Free, Apostolic, and Non-denominational.

    As we seek to know the Lord more, the Lord himself reveals who he is and what he has to say. And the approach I take on my website and in my coaching is to encourage everyone to be good “Bereans” and search Scripture for themselves, examining the Scriptures every day to see if what they are learning is true (Acts 17:11) .

    And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless for the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ—to the glory and praise of God (Philippians 1:9-11).