How Did I Just Describe Your Relationship? (What It's Like to Live With a Narcissist)

If this describes your relationship, I want to give you a reality check: you are right about the way he is. And here’s what to do about it.

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Justice (And How It Brings Peace)

It’s the chant of the protestors: No justice, no peace. Know justice, know peace. Here’s how to find justice and peace in your life and in your marriage.

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Bad Husband, Good Father? (Helping your child when your marriage is difficult)

If you think it’s possible for a bad husband to be a good father, here are some things to consider - and ways to help your children when your marriage is challenging (or ending).

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Help! He's Alienating Me From My Children!

The feeling of panic, desperation, and fear that comes when your children are being turned against you is very real. Here are 7 ways to protect yourself and your children from parental alienation.

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Is It My Fault That He's Angry? (My Counselor Said I'm Enabling Him)

Wondering if your spouse’s anger is your fault? If you work at keeping your spouse happy so he doesn’t get angry, it’s important to know the distinction between enabling and causing his anger - and how to stop.

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His Indifference is Destroying Our Relationship (Or is it me?)

If your husband is indifferent and doesn’t seem to care about your concerns, what can you do about it? Here are 3 ways you can spark change.

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How to Handle Someone’s Behavior (and Get Them to Change)

When you’ve tried everything to deal with someone’s mean, rude, angry, or uncaring behavior, you might wonder what else you could do to handle their behavior. There is one thing you might not have thought of. And it could change everything.

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7 Mistakes That Are Ruining Your Relationship (You definitely do #7)

If your relationship isn’t getting better even though you’re doing these things, they might actually be ruining your relationship. Learn what to do instead to make your relationship better, more mutual, and healthier.

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3 Tips from the Bible on Dealing with Narcissists

Narcissism is a buzz word these days. As a Christian, what should our response be to a narcissist? The Bible gives three clear tips on dealing with narcissists.

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How Do People Become Narcissists? (And Abusive)

What causes someone to be a narcissist? If you are close to someone who uses control, gaslighting, manipulation, anger, yelling, physical violence, or any other number of control tactics, it can help to know how they got that way - and what, if anything, can make them change. .

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How to Help Your Husband Be A Better (Man, Husband, Father)

Does your husband need to be a better husband or father? Does he suffer from depression, anxiety, or an addiction? Find out how to help him be a better man.

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What If He's Not Worthy Of Respect? (I Can't Believe The Advice This Expert Gave)

You know that you should respect your husband, but what if he is not worthy of respect? A Christian marriage expert got it dangerously wrong, but there’s another way.

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When Every Special Day Is Ruined (5 Survival Tips for Special Days With Your Spouse)

Does every special day with your spouse get ruined because someone gets upset? These 5 steps will help you survive those special days - and maybe even save the rest of them from ruin.

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Is My Spouse a Christian? (He Says He Is / She Says She Is)

If your spouse says he/she is a Christian and does Christian things but there’s another side to them, it’s reasonable to wonder if they’re actually a Christian. But how would you know? Let’s go to Scripture and find out.

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