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Marriage: Covenant Or Contract? (And Why It Doesn't Matter)
Marriage is a covenant, not a contract. You hear that a lot. But what does that really mean? And is the accepted definition of the word covenant accurate? And does it matter? Let’s go to Scripture to find out.
Being Complacent is Being Complicit With Sin
Do you find yourself exasperated by your spouse’s words or behavior? Does your child’s behavior frustrate you? Do you have a sibling or friend who always seems to need help? Are you still trying to earn the respect or love of a parent? Discover what to do when someone's sin affects you - and what happens if you don’t do enough.
The Problem With Attachment Therapy
I’m stepping on some big toes here, but hear me out. Attachment-based Therapy has a major flaw. Whether you have anxious attachment, avoidant attachment, or disorganized attachment, you’re not going to get to secure attachment without this one key factor.
Unconditional Love Does Not Mean This...
As Christians, God sets an example for us of unconditional love, loving us regardless of our behavior. But it’s important to know what unconditional love doesn’t mean. Let’s look at what that is.
Can Divorce Honor God?
Could divorce possibly honor God? Let’s take an inventory of what’s happening in your marriage and see what it really means to honor God in marriage.
Is The Enemy Attacking Your Marriage?
To solve problems in marriage, you have to identify the problem correctly. We commonly hear that your spouse is not the enemy, but can you tell if it’s Satan attacking your marriage or if it’s something else? Let’s find out.
18 Reasons Why Bad Things Happen
When things get hard, it can help to have answers. Let’s explore 16 reasons that bad things happen.
My Spouse Is Like A Child
There’s a reason your spouse acts like a child. The question is: when will they grow up? And what can you do to help when it seems like they don’t put any effort into it themselves?
Biblical Reasons For Divorce
What are the Biblical grounds for divorce? Many people who ask this question deeply desire to do God’s will. The answer you get will usually consist of “adultery, abandonment, or abuse” (or some variation of those). But let’s consider how Jesus answers that question.
Male Leadership (Aligning The Head of the Family With The Rest Of The Body)
There is a lot of pressure in marriages on men to be the leader and on women to be submissive to their husband’s authority. Both wives and husbands can struggle with what this really should look like and it can lead to pointing fingers toward who isn’t doing their job well enough. Let’s take the pressure off and help everyone live up to the way God designed them.
Unity in Marriage (And Unity In The Church)
Unity. It’s what we’re told marriage is about. Two becoming one. But what does that mean? Agreement? Intimacy? Togetherness? Find out how we do a disservice to our marriage and the body of Christ when we get this wrong.
Boundaries Aren’t Working? Here’s Why (And What To Do About It)
Have you tried to set boundaries with your spouse and, rather than getting cooperation or change, you get apathy or resistance? If your boundaries aren’t working, here’s why - and what to do about it.
8 Tips For Dealing With Unmet Expectations
One of the most frustrating things about a relationship is unmet expectations - when you expect your spouse to behave a certain way, and he/she doesn’t do what you expect. Here are 8 tips for how to deal with unmet expectations.
Marriage God's Way
What does it mean to do marriage God’s way? God is patient, gracious, kind, merciful, forgiving, loving, and compassionate, but there is so much more to being transformed into the image of Christ in your marriage than those “feel good” characteristics.
Submission and the Heart of God
While many declarations have been made on the concept of submission, this article provides a fresh perspective on the word “submit” in the context of the character of God, providing a perspective to free those who are bound to the suffocating legalism that often accompanies the concept of submission in an unhealthy marriage.
5 Signs That Your Relationship Is In Bigger Trouble Than You Thought
There are some obvious signs that a relationship is in trouble: A spouse having an affair, physical abuse, alcohol or drug addiction, or pornography use - but what if none of those are present and there’s still a sense that you’re stuck? See if you’re experiencing any of these 5 signs that your relationship is in bigger trouble than you thought.
For Men Only (Relationship Help For Husbands)
Are you a husband wanting desperately to do right by your wife and be a godly man? Men who want to improve their relationship approach their role very differently than their female counterparts (and for good reason - their role is different!). If you’re a man who is needing someone to understand your unique challenges, this article is for you.
How To Live In A Narcissistic Relationship
It is possible to live peaceably with a narcissist. Here are 5 changes you can make in order to stay together.
The Best Gift Your Spouse Can Give You
Have you ever approached a holiday, occasion, or celebratory day and thought “All I want is for this day to feel special and not end with someone being upset”? Sometimes the best gift you can get from your spouse on a special occasion is something that isn’t tangible. Here are some ideas to help you get what you really want.
How God Used Narcissists In The Bible (And Will Your Marriage To a Narcissist Last?)
Have you wondered how your marriage to someone with narcissistic traits is going to work out? What did God do with narcissists in the Bible? Find out how God uses the difficult people in our lives to show us how rich his love for us is.