As someone who is faithful to your marriage covenant, it’s right that you don’t want to leave just because of sickness. After all, you did vow “in sickness and in health.” And if narcissism is a sickness (a mental illness), then the vow applies, right? Let’s consider the full scope of what it means to stay faithful in sickness and in health.

Are you someone who strives to always be nice to people? While being nice feels really good to you, it isn’t looked upon as highly by those who are observing - much to your dismay, because you want to be seen in a positive light. To have someone see your niceness as anything but positive can be devastating to your identity. But we’re going to tackle your codependency in order to bring some truth.